Have you ever wondered why even after gifting expensive toys, your Kids complain about feeling unloved and uncared for ? Have you ever wondered why even after helping your spouse in the kitchen or laundry, she complaints about feeling unloved?
Most of the time we think that loving and caring someone with all our heart will make them happy. However, when they do not reciprocate our feelings, we will be hurt at the end, saying that eventhough I loved her or him so much, all that I got is rejection! It’s all because everyone has different love languages.
So if we understand someone’s love language well, we can connect better and can make them feel loved, cared and valued. This can be used in family, work place, and most definitely works in our favour.
Let me tell you my story here so that you can connect it well. I love to sit and talk with my seven-year-old boy about his class, friends and school. But he never showed any interest in that and always discouraged me by keeping quiet.
One fine day I found out that he likes to play and share the things with me than just sitting and talking.
Well it’s working since then!
To explain more, we all know that how hard it is to retain efficient maids at home. So next time do understand their love language like compliments or financial support, gifts and do let me know is it working for you!