Have you ever noticed that there are few families where husband and wife will be shouting at each other or arguing for silly reasons. The annoying conversations sometimes do not even even have a proper logic. Yet both get pleasure, sometimes pressure out of it. The hidden frustrations will come as words or sentences. In some cases, women take all the credits for arguing or nagging.
Certainly, there are no gender differences when it comes to nagging. Some men nag too. Nagging happens when women want to prove their belief or argument is right or sometimes, they nag to make men understand what they are feeling/going through.
Women nag for different reasons.
Here are certain ways situation as, why do they so?
When a woman feels insecure, she will automatically nag, she will question the man with a suspicious tone, nag in an interrogative way, investigate the man looking for signs of him straying, complain he doesn’t spend time with her anymore, demand to know who he is speaking to on phone may be even snoop on his phone or messages. This woman is best handled by being transparent and spending more time with her and give her more access to privacy. let her have your phone and password. If indeed you have nothing to hide, affirm that no one is taking her place, display your love for her in public through simple gestures like holding her waist, or sitting next to her.
When she is impulsive
Some women nag because of their impatient nature, they put undue pressure on themselves, they get unsettled easily and doubt quickly.
This lady is best handled by bringing it to her attention that you love her. However, she needs to work on her weakness. For that teach her to pray more, do breathing exercises with her, be patient with her as she becomes more patient.
She keeps unrealistic expectation.
Obviously, men earn and look after his family. Sometimes both man and woman earn, still if man fails in plans or couldn’t meet the expectation of that lady, chances of nagging is more.
This woman needs a moment to cool, she needs to be involved in the planning and execution of those plans so that she appreciates why sometimes even the best of plans don’t work out or work out, but not as quickly as wished.
When she holds grudge
Sometimes a woman nags because she has inner resentment. She despises the man, and the nag is just an expression of it. This woman is best handled by having a candid discussion, maybe there is something you as a man are doing or did that still bruise her heart. Trace back to when she started nagging and find out what you did. A woman who loves you will not despise you for no reason, know the reason.
So when women nag men should understand the reason, and if you could handle the situation wisely you win the game.